“I’m Too Busy”

When you say I’m too busy you’re making an excuse. You’re prioritizing in your mind, you’re telling yourself you couldn’t possibly do one more thing. It’d be too much, you couldn’t handle doing any more.

You’re telling yourself a story to justify how busy you are. It’s a defense mechanism of the lizard brain to protect our primal self from the uncertain outcome of whatever it is you’re too busy to do.

99% of the time this is not a good thing. Making excuses to do less is not going to help you get ahead in life. But we all do it. Have you ever said no to going out when a friend asked because you were too busy? Have you said no to a special volunteer project at work because you were too busy? Do you not get involved, help, volunteer, draw, sing, play guitar, write or dance anymore because you’re too busy?

Sorry to burst your bubble but everyone is busy, you’re not special. I’m not saying I’m immune, I’m saying this is something we all need to desperately work on, our success depends upon it.

The only difference between really successful people (who weren’t just lucky) and regular people is that successful people have figured out a way to do more. They work harder than the rest. They regularly commit to things beyond their capabilities. They stretch their personal boundaries enough to be out of their comfort zone a lot, that’s where the major learning lies.

On the contrary what if you weren’t too busy? What if you started trying to say yes more(it worked out well for Jim Carrey) What if you started doing things more efficiently to give yourself more time*? What if you committed to something beyond what you think you’re capable of? What if you made a goal to not say “I’m too busy” anymore?

The easiest way to help yourself is by helping other people.

The next time someone asks you to do, join, or be a part of something and you want to say “I’m too busy” ask yourself if you really are too busy.

* – In an 8 hour day performing 8 tasks within that day, at a rate of 10% faster than usual(8 hours=480 minutes 480×10%=48 minutes). You’d have an extra 48 minutes in your day to do whatever you want with.

 

My 2013 Goals

This will be the biggest year of my life and hopefully yours too.  As such I thought it would be helpful to set a couple goals.  Do you set goals?  You should.  I could help you.

1.  Win the last game of the season coaching volleyball.

My favorite pass time for the past few years has been coaching volleyball. It’s the best.

2.  Read 52 books this year.

Came up several short last year.

3.  To have a family dinner once a week.

I have a 15 month old nephew who thinks I’m just the funniest.

4.  To help the University of Regina Alumni create something to be proud of.

Already in progress. Will report back.

5.  To fall in love with the organizations that want my help. (Ehem, Capital Ford, Regina Police, Regina and District Association for Community Living).

6.  Have SIAST ask me to teach more. (I’m teaching a marketing class for the first time ever this semester).

7.  To speak in a province or state that I’ve never spoke in before.

Yes I’m still giving out lottery tickets during presentations if you were wondering.

8.  To grow Strategy Lab to five of us.

Yeah that’s right, tell yer kids, tell yer wife.

9.  Lose 20 pounds.

(I’ve been trying for 7 years but love cooking and wine far too much)

10.  To always give credit when do.

A teacher in grade 11 once told our class when ever you receive amazing service you should tell the person or company. They may never know the impact they’re making unless you tell them.

11.  To admit being wrong more often.

This is more so for Brandon and Linden. We argue a lot. Good arguing though. I think.

Where do you want to go?

Cheshire Cat - Alice in Wonderland

One day Alice came to a fork in the road and Saw a Cheshire cat in a tree.
“Which road do I take?” she asked.
His response was a question:
“Where do you want to go?”
“I don’t know,” Alice answered.
“Then,” said the cat, “it doesn’t matter.”
– Lewis Carroll, Alice in Wonderland

If you don’t know where you’re going it’s going to be difficult to get anywhere. In life you must set goals, have a direction or a general purpose. The more you know about where you’re going, the easier decision making is when you come to the fork in the road.

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4 Super Simple How-Tos on Using WordPress (with screen shots)

wordpress-oldschool-logoWe here at Strategy Lab are big fans of WordPress. It really is the cats pajamas when it comes to building a valuable online presence. Cost effective, beautifully designed websites with a backend so simple a chimpanzee could update it. Yeah, that’s pretty simple hey?

The majority of the time when you’re in WordPress it’s because you need to:

1. Publish a blog post

2. Upload a photo
3. Embed a video

4. Update a page

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